Mātugāmasaṁyutta 32
Linked Discourses 37.32
3. Powers
Things
1 “Mendicants, there are five things that are hard to get for ladies who have not made merit. What five?
‘May I be born into a suitable family!’ This is the first thing.
‘Having been born in a suitable family, may I marry into a suitable family!’ This is the second thing.
‘Having been born in a suitable family and married into a suitable family, may I live at home without a co-wife!’ This is the third thing.
‘Having been born in a suitable family, and married into a suitable family, and living at home without a co-wife, may I have children!’ This is the fourth thing.
‘Having been born in a suitable family, and married into a suitable family, and living at home without a co-wife, and having had children, may I live having mastered my husband!’ This is the fifth thing.
These are the five things that are hard to get for ladies who have not made merit.
2 There are five things that are easy to get for ladies who have made merit. What five?
‘May I be born into a suitable family!’ This is the first thing.
‘Having been born into a suitable family, may I marry into a suitable family!’ This is the second thing.
‘Having been born into a suitable family and married into a suitable family, may I live at home without a co-wife!’ This is the third thing.
‘Having been born into a suitable family, and married into a suitable family, and living at home without a co-wife, may I have children!’ This is the fourth thing.
‘Having been born into a suitable family, and married into a suitable family, and living at home without a co-wife, and having had children, may I live having mastered my husband!’ This is the fifth thing.
These are the five things that are easy to get for ladies who have made merit.”